Learning English to 'Fit In'

Here's a phrase I came across recently: "learningwould help them fit in. But is it learning English, or
English to fit in". What a strange expression! Isis it becoming confident with what they already
that really a motivation for learning English? Whathave?
does it mean to 'fit in' anyway? I suppose thatConversation classes might be a good start for
'fitting in' is what we all strive for - to bethese guys, after all they are living in an English
accepted, to become part of something, andspeaking country, and there are plenty of
maybe if everyone else is speaking English thenopportunities to get to know local students -
you could feel excluded. But where might thisstudent socials, bars, sports clubs etc.
happen? Why might somebody find themselves inFor the foreign businessman, 'fitting in' has
such a situation? Vacations? Maybe, but thesedifferent connotations: he is likely to be overseas
would mostly take place in a group or familyfor a short period - maybe only a few days (or
situation, and so there's a common language therehours even), with a very specific English task -
already. Someone holidaying alone one can'fitting in' might mean understanding and taking
presume has the sense of adventure that wouldpart in meetings and seminars, for example.
regard the lack of English as a challenge: all part of'Fitting in' might be about feeling comfortable with
the fun - I would contend that this person wouldlocal services: hotels, taxis, stations and shops, for
learn English as they fitted in!example. For these individuals, learning English in an
There are two categories of people to whom theappropriate way (and there are several options,
phrase might be appropriate - the foreign studentfrom private tuition to an English school at home
and the foreign businessman. The student may beor abroad) is essential to their top performance
in the situation of needing a social life - fed up ofoverseas for their company - 'fitting in' is as much
24 hour studying written pages and wordabout getting the business deal done as it is about
processed reports - for him or her learning Englishsocial comfort.